Sometimes boyfriends are so not worth it
Nov. 8th, 2003 04:49 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
bessie_smithMaybe I nitpick this too much, but there are times when I think my boyfriend likes taking little digs at me. Before, when he was bankrupting himself by running up massive credit card debt, he tried to lay it on me because he took me out to dinner once a week. Hello, I wasn't the one who reached into his pocket, grabbed his wallet and whipped out an overextended credit card. And I wasn't the one who ran up his damn debt in the first place. It took a very loud fuck you bitch before he backed off that shit.
Well, now he's getting on me because we just don't get together early enough on the weekends for him. See, come Friday, I ask him when he wants to get together on Saturday, he may say he wants to get together early, so I'll ask him what he wants to do, and he'll have no fucking idea, and he'll poo-poo most of my suggestions since he's usually flat broke cash five minutes after he gets paid and doesn't have money to spend, and doesn't particular like having me pick up the tab. So, not wanting to spend an entire day sitting in his apartment doing nothing, I'll suggest we get together at 6. That way, we only sit in his apartment doing nothing for a few hours. Really, why the fuck should I waste my day doing nothing? I'd rather spend the day scrubbing the bathtub than sitting in his apartment watching TV, which I can do at home by myself, and be better entertained, since I have a DVD player, a big screen TV, and more movies than the average video store, thank you very much.
Now, if I was keeping him from going out and doing something he wanted to do, I could see him being peeved by this, but since that's not the case, why is he busting my ass for something that's not even a deal, let alone a big one. All I'm saying is if we're not going to do anything with the day, why get together at noon?
People wonder why I call him a high maintenance blond. Here's one reason.
Crap, he pulls piddly shit like this when he's got something on his mind, then I have to pull my hair out getting to whatever is on his mind to get him to stop. Well, I'm not doing that this time. If he has something on his mind, I'm not going to dig for it. He picks that nit again, he getting another fuck you.
Well, now he's getting on me because we just don't get together early enough on the weekends for him. See, come Friday, I ask him when he wants to get together on Saturday, he may say he wants to get together early, so I'll ask him what he wants to do, and he'll have no fucking idea, and he'll poo-poo most of my suggestions since he's usually flat broke cash five minutes after he gets paid and doesn't have money to spend, and doesn't particular like having me pick up the tab. So, not wanting to spend an entire day sitting in his apartment doing nothing, I'll suggest we get together at 6. That way, we only sit in his apartment doing nothing for a few hours. Really, why the fuck should I waste my day doing nothing? I'd rather spend the day scrubbing the bathtub than sitting in his apartment watching TV, which I can do at home by myself, and be better entertained, since I have a DVD player, a big screen TV, and more movies than the average video store, thank you very much.
Now, if I was keeping him from going out and doing something he wanted to do, I could see him being peeved by this, but since that's not the case, why is he busting my ass for something that's not even a deal, let alone a big one. All I'm saying is if we're not going to do anything with the day, why get together at noon?
People wonder why I call him a high maintenance blond. Here's one reason.
Crap, he pulls piddly shit like this when he's got something on his mind, then I have to pull my hair out getting to whatever is on his mind to get him to stop. Well, I'm not doing that this time. If he has something on his mind, I'm not going to dig for it. He picks that nit again, he getting another fuck you.
